Vibrators: Good for Your Health!
We would like to welcome all the new and returning students and staff to the University of Illinois and to our weekly sex column in Buzz! While you’re busy exploring new schedules and the social scene, we at “Doin’ It Well” explore a new sex topic each week for your reading enjoyment. We welcome questions, comments and feedback. Our column is designed to meet the sexual health needs of the community; we want to write about topics you want to know about!
Toybox
Sexual aids and toys can include anything used to enhance sex play. We often think of items like vibrators and dildos, but other toys include anal and vaginal beads, butt plugs, cock rings, nipple clamps, games, blindfolds, and handcuffs. While people have been using more than just their body parts for sexual stimulation for many years, documentation of who is using sex toys and how often is scarce. But two recent studies offer some insight: lots of Americans use sex toys regularly - and it’s good for their health!
Friendly Users
In July, The Journal of Sexual Medicine published two studies from the University of Indiana. The researchers asked a nationally representative sample of Americans and found sex toy use to be common among both women and men! The findings are a wonderful addition to sexual science, especially since many people hold erroneous beliefs about who uses sex toys and why. We often believe that women mostly use sex toys, that lesbians must be using them, and that most men are threatened by vibrators, especially their use during sex with a partner. Or, we might think that only the sexually adventurous or “freaky” people use sexual aids, and that they are mostly used during masturbation. These recent studies show us something different.
Turning It On
The studies included over 2,000 women and 1,000 men between the ages of 18 and 60, and revealed that 52% of women and 45% of men have used a vibrator at some point, with 25 percent of women and 10 percent of men having done so within the last month. Most heterosexual men reported using vibrators during foreplay or intercourse with a female partner, but 17% said they also used a vibrator for masturbation. Until now, vibrator use among men had not been documented.
Vibrator Users Experience Better Sexual Health
Another exciting outcome from these studies is that men and women who use vibrators reported increased pro sexual behaviors. According to study findings, women who use vibrators were more likely to have had a gynecological exam within the last year and to perform genital self-exams. Men who used them were more likely to conduct testicular self-exams. Both men and women who use vibrators reported increased levels of sexual functioning including desire, arousal, orgasm and sexual satisfaction,
Of course we do not know for sure the exact correlation between vibrator use and pro sexual behaviors. It may be that those who are comfortable enough to purchase and use sex toys - even with a partner - are also more comfortable accessing sexual health information and talking to a healthcare provider. It makes sense that those who use sex toys welcome and embrace mutual sexual pleasure and therefore report higher levels of desire, satisfaction and sexual functioning. More studies like this might help us understand attitudes about how we approach sexuality, recognizing that celebrating sexuality and pleasure has a positive effect on people’s overall well-being including physical health.
Sex Toy Safety
If you’re currently using or thinking about adding sex toys to your repertoire, here are some tips to ensure you’re keeping it safe.
• Using a toy on only one person or on both partners in non genital areas offers virtually no risk for sexually transmitted diseases, and no risk of pregnancy.
• Remember that sex toys can cause fluid exchange or “skin to skin contact” if used between partners. To reduce STD risk, use a condom on the toy (and change it if you use it on more than one person) or make sure each partner has their own toy that is used only on them.
• If you insert a toy into the rectum, use one that has a flared base, go slowly and use lots of lube.
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Sex 411: Where the wild toys are
Locally we recommend Illini Arcade or Fantasy’s
Online check out: www.goodvibes.com, www.babeland.com, or www.early2bed.com for toys and safety tips!
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