Friday, March 30, 2007

We need YOU: To get comprehensive sex ed. in schools

We are both involved in a community organization called the Campaign for Comprehensive Sex Education (CCSE). This campaign is dedicated to making sure local schools are providing comprehensive, medically accurate sex education for our youth. As you might suspect, we’re big fans of sex education that is accurate and helps youth make their own decisions. Without this information, youth are caught between various sources of misinformation, whether from peers or school. Even if youth ultimately choose to abstain, many adolescents (and adults) engage in sexual behaviors without protection because they were never taught how their own bodies work, the risks involved, or how to protect themselves. Moreover, good sex ed. helps youth take ownership of their own sexual health and make informed decisions that are right for them.  

In working with this campaign, we have come across many supporters of good sex education who were surprised to learn that comprehensive sex ed. is not being taught in any consistent manner in our local schools. We’ve met with students, teachers, parents, and community members and have learned that some teachers teach sex ed. really well and call in reinforcements from Planned Parenthood and C-U Public Health when needed.

Unfortunately, we have also learned from teens that some teachers don’t spend any time on sexual health, use language in high school like “down there” and “pee pee” and teach curricula based on values, rather than medically accurate information that youth need to live sexually healthy lifestyles. Most of you have probably heard about the scandal in a Chicago suburb about a health teacher who provided an inappropriate sexual health lesson to his class. He found the lesson online, and, because he is not trained in sexuality, was clearly not aware of how his lesson was not age appropriate. This type of situation calls for more standardization of health curricula that mandates that teachers use proven sexual health curricula and appropriate websites recommended by professionals in the field. CCSE has worked with the Urbana School Board in the past to recommend changes and updates to their health curriculum. These suggestions were well received and the school board was open to our input. Currently, we are working with the Champaign School Board.  We need your help to make sure those elected to the board on April 17th support comprehensive sex education! On April 17th elections will take place for the open seats on the Champaign School board, as well as Urbana District 7. We need to elect to the school board those individuals who openly support sex education that provides accurate information about anatomy, physiology, abstinence and contraception in a standardized way to ensure that all students receive the same education.   In an effort to find out who does support comprehensive sex ed., CCSE sent out a survey asking those running for the school board three questions:

1. Do you support a standardized health curriculum for Unit 4 schools?

2. Will you support a sex education curriculum that includes information about   contraception, disease prevention, abstinence, and responsible decision-making beginning in the 7th grade?

3. Do you support a health curriculum that will enable students to protect themselves and make responsible decisions throughout their lives by teaching comprehensive, age-appropriate, and medically accurate sex education? In Champaign , there are five seats open for the school board. One seat, for which Nathaniel Banks is running, is uncontested. Mr. Banks does support comprehensive sex education. There are seven people competing for the remaining four seats available on the school board. Here is a break down of the candidates and how they responded to the CCSE survey about comprehensive sex education:

In Full Support!

Minosca Alcantara: supportive of all three questions asked

Kristine Chalifoux:  supportive of all three questions asked

Melodye Rosales: also gave support on all 3 questions of the CCSE survey

Supportive:

Chuck Jackson: supports comprehensive sex ed., but not standardized education

Greg Novak: supports comprehensive sex education and standardized curricula, but not in the 7th grade.

The other candidates either didn’t respond to our survey or were unsupportive of comprehensive sex ed., so they are not listed in our column. For voters living in Urbana school district, the only contested race is in sub-district 7.  That's where Tracy Heilman, John Dimit and Andrew Wilk are running. 

Tracy Heilman: supports comprehensive sex education

John Dimit: supports comprehensive sex education, believes it has already been adopted in Urbana Sex 411 School Board candidates we support:

Urbana District 7:  Tracy Heilman

Champaign : Minosca Alcantara, Kristine Chalifoux and Melodye Rosales Kim Rice and Ross Wantland are professionals in the field of human sexuality and violence prevention.  Email them topic suggestions for future columns at: buzzdoinitwell@yahoo.com

 

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Friday, March 16, 2007

We the Women: Creating the Women's Sexual Bill of Rights

Kim: Some of you may have noticed that two weeks ago, Kate Ruin announced she was stepping away from Doin' It Well. Geographical distance and involvement in other social justice activities have sadly pulled her away from the column we created. She is missed!

But don't worry, faithful readers: I have recruited another awesome co-author, Ross Wantland. I am totally excited to continue Doin' It Well with him.

Ross: Hello readers! I am overjoyed to join Kim Rice in this writing venture. A little about me: For the past 10 years, I have been doing sexual and domestic violence prevention work in this community. Currently, I work with a lot with men to help us as men understand our own role in preventing violence against women. Because of my work, folks sometimes get confused and believe that because I am anti-rape, then I'm somehow anti-sex. Actually, I think sex is great, and I enjoy talking about sexual health. Sex is wonderful and healthy. We're not born innately knowing everything about it and we all could use some assistance to help us navigate the murky waters of sexuality in our society. I am looking forward to answering your questions and providing you with information to keep you (and us) Doin' It Well.

When we talk with women about their sexuality, we notice that many women have a difficult time being in touch with, celebrating, and truly owning their own sexual identities. Women are often taught that their sexuality is for the benefit of someone else, usually men. Although we will explore the reasons for this in later columns, it led us to brainstorm a list of women's sexual rights, or affirmations. Maybe women and men will cut this column out and post it on their refrigerators, in their bedrooms or on their bathroom mirrors, replacing the usual affirmations on post-it notes that say things like "you are a good person" with this Women's Sexual Bill of Rights.



Sex 411: Women's Sexual Bill of Rights
Women have the right to sexual pleasure
Women have the right to their own bodies and a right to touch their bodies for pleasure
Women have the right to sexual expression without the consequence of harassment or sexual violence
Women have the right to reproductive health choices that affect their bodies
Women have the right to say yes to sex
Women have the right to initiate sexual activity
Women have the right to begin sexual exploration and activity at a time that feels OK and desirable to them, which may be earlier or later than what parents, religions, society or partners are comfortable with
Women have the right to prevent pregnancy and to enjoy sexual activity for the pleasure it provides
Women have the right to ask for the type of sexual stimulation they want
Women have the right to be the experts about their own bodies and about how they liked to be touched
Women have the right to teach their partners how, where and when they like to be touched
Women have the right to bring condoms on dates and request that their partners wear them on penises or dildos
Women have the right to mutually satisfying, respectful sexual encounters
Women have the right to look at, explore, touch, massage and play with their bodies, including their genitals
Women have the right to feel horny and to experience sexual frustration ("blue ovaries")
Women have the right to experience love, sex and intimacy in physical, emotional and spiritual ways with other women, men and anyone in between
Women have the right to heal from the trauma and abuse inflicted upon them and to enjoy sexual lives that are satisfying and fulfilling
Women have the right to love other women openly
Women have the right to expect to experience orgasm during sex
Women have the right to understand and be with partners who understand that female sexuality, anatomy and functioning are different from men's and equally important and valid
Women have the right to live in a world free of sexual violence

Kim Rice and Ross Wantland are professionals in the field of sexuality and violence prevention. Send your questions, comments, reactions and opinions to buzzdoinitwell@yahoo.com.

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