Thursday, November 15, 2007

Turtleneck or Crew? Discussing Male Circumcision

Recently, several people have asked us about our thoughts on male circumcision. Male circumcision is a practice that removes the top portion of the foreskin (the outer sheath) of the penis. Although sometimes performed for religious beliefs, circumcision is also a cultural, moral, medical and social practice, taking on different meanings at different times.

Anatomy of a Penis

As a quick review, the shaft of the penis ends in the bulb-like glans. The foreskin is the soft membrane skin that doubles over the penis, covering the glans. In circumcised males, the amount of remaining foreskin varies, but is usually a ring of extra skin below the glans. For uncircumcised males, the foreskin covers the glans completely, except when erect. Foreskin proponents cite the uncircumcised penis’s natural “gliding action” - where the foreskin can completely engulf the penis during stimulation - as one of many foreskin benefits.

Foreskin Facts

Worldwide, approximately 1/6th to 1/3rd of the world’s male population is circumcised. The U.S., however, has the highest rate of circumcision in the developed world (which some estimates place around 60%). This varies greatly by geographic region, culture, and race, with the Midwest having one of the highest percentages of circumcision. Most of the circumcisions in the U.S. are performed for non-religious reasons.

A Brief History

Male circumcision has been practiced for thousands of years throughout the world. Historically, circumcision is seen as both a rite into manhood and a ceremony of cleanliness. In Judiasm, Islam, and Christianity, circumcision can be part of a religious ceremony for newborn boys.

Circumcision has long been seen as a hygienic intervention to help boys keep themselves clean and free from disease. But there has always been a moral meaning behind circumcision, too. In the 1800’s, anti-sex advocates, such as John Kellogg, advocated circumcision to prevent extensive “self-abuse”(aka masturbation).

Medical Thoughts

Recently, the World Health Organization began advocating circumcision as a step towards HIV-prevention in Africa, as some research suggests that circumcised men have lower rates of transmission than uncircumcised men. In addition, some research suggests that circumcision may be linked to lower rates of penile and cervical cancer (in female sexual partners). However, much of this research may not control for other variables, such as economic factors and is much debated in medical and sexual science.

In the U.S., circumcision has not slowed the spread of sexually transmitted STIs or heterosexually transmitted HIV. Nationally, the American Academy of Pediatrics has stated that they believe the benefits to circumcision do not merit routine circumcisions. Additionally, they strongly advocated the use of pain relievers during the procedure, as research increasingly shows that pain has a negative impact on infants.. The American Academy of Family Pediatricians similarly recommended that doctors discuss the benefits and risks of circumcision thoroughly with parents.

Take Back the Foreskin

There is a movement of men and some women to challenge circumcision (or as some of these groups call it, male genital mutilation). Many of these men have been circumcised and believe that this circumcision was a non-consensual alteration of their bodies. And, some of these men are quite angry.

There are surgical and non-surgical methods for “restoring” foreskin, many of which can be painful, expensive or minimally effective. Whereas surgical methods involve skin grafting from the scrotum, non-surgical methods usually involve stretching the remaining foreskin with weights or elastic cords.  

  

What’s the Difference?

It depends on who you talk to as to whether circumcision makes a difference, particularly on sexual pleasure. Legendary sex researchers Masters and Johnson determined that there was no difference in the tactile sensations on the glans of the penis between circumcised and uncircumcised men. Opponents of circumcision suggest that the loss of nerves, as well as the loss of the protective foreskin around the glans, produces a loss of sensitivity in the penises of circumcised men. At the same time, research on the impact of circumcision on penile sensation and sexual satisfaction is inconclusive.

Hygiene is sometimes a reason for recommending circumcision. But an uncircumcised penis need not be more difficult to keep clean than a circumcised penis. Teaching proper hygiene to young boys - circumcised and uncircumcised - can help them take proper care of their penises. At the same time, because circumcised penises are the majority in the U.S., uncircumcised boys & men may find themselves ridiculed because their penis doesn’t look like the “norm.” By discussing this issue early on with uncircumcised boys, parents or caretakers can help them understand their bodies and prepare them to respond to questions or teasing.

Make Your Own Decision

Circumcision is a personal decision for parents/legal guardians, or for adult males. In the U.S., the medical and sexual effects of circumcision are negligible. But circumcision holds social (looking like dad or other males) and religious importance. Before you snip, consult with your medical provider and do your own research.

Next week, join Doin’ It Well as we talk purity balls.

Sex 411: It’s all in how you wear it

Check out http://www.teenwire.org/ to see pictures of both uncircumcised and circumcised penises.

Kim Rice and Ross Wantland are professionals in the fields of sexuality and violence prevention.  Email them at buzzdoinitwell@yahoo.com

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C-U Sex Shops: Women-friendly or dark & creepy?

Hello intrepid duo,

I’m hoping you can help me.  I know there are a few sex shops in town (I pass Urbana News all the time), but I wonder if there are any that are specifically GLBTQ or women-friendly?  Is there a clean, safe place to explore and purchase porn in C-U, or will I have to brave the dark, creepy shops of my imagination to find the good stuff? And who has the best variety? 

Thanks,

Trepidatious but Curious

Hello TbC,

Thanks for the great question. As you may know, there are four sex shops in town:  Illini Arcade, Fantasy’s, I-Block, and Urbana News. While gay or questioning men may find different needs met at any of the four stores, for women we recommend Illini Arcade and Fantasy’s.

When you walk into Illini Arcade & Fantasies, you’ll notice they are both well lit, clean, and most of the time, have women working behind the counter. In fact, Illini Arcade and Fantasy’s are designed to meet the needs of female consumers. When we visited them and talked to the managers (who are, incidentally, women), they told us that they have designed their stores to be the “women-friendly” shops in town. These two stores, along with Urbana News are owned by a female-run parent company out of Chicago. If you want to ensure that a woman is working, call ahead to either place, and they can let you know. The staff we encountered at both places was very friendly and willing to answer questions we had about products and films.

Illini Arcade & Fantasy’s periodically host ladies’ night.  At ladies’ night, men are not allowed, and the women learn about different aspects of sexual health, based on what those particular women are most interesting in discussing. Almost thirty-five women attended the last ladies night.  Past topics have included Introduction to Sex Toys and Anal Sex 101. Check their website to find out the next date or sign up to receive email alerts of upcoming events: http://www.loversplayground.com/.

Both stores were equally stocked with porn designed specifically for women but the selection was small, which reflects the larger pornography market. As you might suspect, the vast majority of the porn there is marketed towards straight males, with gay male films making up less than a quarter of the titles. The lesbian , bisexual, or trans titles are limited, but both places had several to choose from. The managers said that it is difficult to get good lesbian porn, especially the variety that is not “girl on girl” produced mainly for the benefit of straight men.  We found (mostly-straight) films directed by women including Nina Hartley, Viv Thomas and Candida Royalle. The lesbian films were the most limited, but a few recommended production companies of lesbian films included Abbey Winters, Lez Love Video, and Girlfriends Films.

The reading materials directed at women were more limited than the films. Both stores had a few educational books, including Sex Toys 101 (required reading for all store clerks) and Women’s Travel books.  Fantasy’s had Transgender Tapestry magazine, but the LGBT magazines at both places were limited, due to a number of these publications going out of business.  At both places, you can request that they order a product for you, including specific movie or magazine titles.

Illini Arcade and Fantasy’s have an array of sex toys, lubes, condoms, and lingerie as well. From vibrators to dildos to BDSM items, most any toys you would be looking for are there. The stores keep a few demo toys with batteries in them so customers can get an idea of how they work, but any customer can bring a toy to the clerk if they have questions. In addition, women can try on lingerie before they buy it.

Both shops have active arcade booths, small viewing rooms that require tokens to view films. Illini Arcade has a wheelchair accessible arcade booth.  Movie requests can be made for the arcade; they change their movie titles on Fridays.

Illini Arcade and Fantasy’s are open 24/7 with the exception of Thanksgiving and Christmas. Busy arcade (movie watching) hours that draw mostly men are lunch hours and Fri & Sat. nights. If you want to avoid the crowds, visit the shops during dinner time or during the day. 

Although geared toward women, men do visit these two shops. We were told that the staff is trained to intervene if a man is in any way making someone feel uncomfortable. Although these two shops are definitely not the dark and creepy shops of your imagination, you might want to check it out with a friend until you feel comfortable heading out solo.

If you visit either of these shops and can’t find what you’re looking for, or are intimidated to go to an adult shop, our top picks for women-owned, LGBT-friendly shops online are: Early to Bed, Good Vibrations and Toys in Babeland.

Happy shopping! Next week we’ll be interviewing staff members from Chicago’s very own Early to Bed sex toy shop.

Sex 411:  Women & LGBTQ Friendly Sex Shops

Illini Arcade, 33 E. Springfield Ave. in Champaign

Fantasy’s, 3604 N. Cunningham Ave. in Urbana

http://www.goodvibes.com/

http://www.early2bed.com/

http://www.babeland.com/

Kim Rice and Ross Wantland are professionals in the fields of sexuality and violence prevention.  Email them at buzzdoinitwell@yahoo.com

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